I decided NOT to take the job!
In the end I think I would have been very unhappy. On the bright side I have another interview in the same building later this week.
I think that was a good negotiating experience, Tierney you were right! Not taking the job was the right thing to do. If they were not going to give me anything I asked for when I was their number one choice, what would it have been like to work there?
So hopefully something better will come along because I need to get out of here!